About
Experiencing narcissistic abuse can come with a number of challenges such as:
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Feeling confused and doubting yourself
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Constantly thinking about what's happened
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Having a strong need for reassurance
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Feeling ALL the emotions
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Lacking in energy
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Lacking a sense of who you are
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Not standing up for yourself or having boundaries
It can affect you emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually, across your personal and professional relationships.
Even if this relationship was in your past, it can still hold you back and affect your confidence to be yourself and live your life how you want to.
If you relate to any of this, I am so sorry you have experienced this.
So how DO you heal and get your life back?
Healing involves going on "a bit of" a journey of healing and self discovery. And it can feel like a lot to work through by yourself.
That's why I am passionate about working with people who have been in these kinds of narcissistic relationships so they can navigate their way through and rebuild themselves, and their lives, from the inside out!
Where do I come into this?
I've lived and breathed narcissistic abuse in a variety of relationships, but, I've also come out the other side; stronger, wiser and more myself - and so can you!
This journey for me began in 2008 when I realised I was in a relationship with a narcissist. I desperately struggled to leave (it took me three attempts). Eventually, I moved on and got over it. But years later I got into a second unhealthy relationship, and this one was even worse than the first.
Through healing, I experienced so much relief and found a sense of confidence to be myself. I transformed my relationship with myself, and as a result, my life transformed, for the better. I'm proud of the progress I've made and I've built some genuine loving and supportive relationships. Including a very special one with my husband, David.
But there was a time when I thought, because of my past, I'd never be able to have a healthy relationship with someone! I've learned that it really is possible, not just for me, but for everyone. People all over the world are waking up to narcissistic abuse, healing, reclaiming their power and living better lives because of it!
My personal experience of healing from narcissistic abuse includes going and staying no contact or low contact with multiple toxic people, working through my addiction to people who hurt me, overcoming my tendency to idolise people who later turned out to be less than idyllic, sifting through all the emotions from this, overcoming being a people pleaser and wanting approval from outside of myself, learning how to love myself and feel safe to be and express myself, and learning how to date and find true love (which I love helping others with!). It also includes overhauling my life by moving countries (twice - from the U.K to Australia and New Zealand), living as a nomad for 8+ years, changing careers (twice) and (unfortunately, for now at least) dealing with persistent pain from an injury (thoracic outlet syndrome) and illness (sinuses & gut health). You can read more about my story here.
So how can Revelation Therapy with Marie-Claire help you?
I offer coaching and hypnotherapy to people who are looking to reclaim themselves and transform their lives. I can help you to:
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Feel confident to know and OWN ALL OF WHO YOU ARE
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Reclaim your energy, autonomy and personal power
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Heal your emotions and feel like a force to be reckoned with (in a good way!)
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Set boundaries with others with confidence and ease
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Live life how you want
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Identify and fulfil your own needs
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Create the relationships of your dreams (but nobody is dreaming here, this is reality)
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Follow your heart, find your joy and create the life you want!
The good thing is, once you have tools to support yourself through narcissistic abuse and turn your life around, you have these tools to support yourself, to navigate and to create what you want, for life!
Heal Yourself By Taking ONE SELF Empowered Step At A Time.
I work with clients of all ages and stages of narcissistic abuse recovery (although saying that, most of my clients are women aged between 35-45, but you don't have to be!) who are either completely new to this or they've been on the journey a while, but are really ready to make some changes now). The people I work with are either seeking support in one particular area (like overcoming an addiction to a toxic person, overcoming anxiety, processing their emotions or setting boundaries), some are on a mission for a complete life overhaul, they are sick of feeling stuck or held back, and they want to live a life that is true to who they are and in complete alignment with what they want and others are somewhere in between, wanting to overcome 2 or 3 main struggles or goals.
I combine coaching and hypnotherapy with insights that only come from living and breathing being in unhealthy relationships and then taking the (bold and brave steps) to heal from narcissistic abuse journey myself.
I currently offer coaching and hypnotherapy, as single sessions for the pay-as-you-go healer (please note these single sessions may not always be available). And for the serious healer that wants to commit to changing their life now, I offer my signature programme "The Inside Out Transformation", where we work together 1:1 to transform your 3 biggest struggles into your 3 biggest breakthroughs over four months of coaching, hypnotherapy and online support. All my sessions take place online via zoom with just the audio - no video required (so you can heal in the comfort of your own home, even whilst wearing your pyjamas if you want!)
You can find out more about how to have your own "Inside Out Transformation" here.
Coming soon I'll be launching online courses that will walk you through a large chunk of this healing journey from the comfort of your own home so you can, sit at home, all comfy, wearing your pyjamas (again) and at the same time you can:
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Detox yourself from the toxic person
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Heal yourself from the Inside Out
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Date and Find True Love after a bad relationship (ok, you'll probably need to change out your pyjamas for this last bit)
I'm actually starting with creating the dating course first (even though it's the last step!) - and I'll pop the link to the early bird sign up / waitlist info here once it's ready.
My education and qualifications include:
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Bachelor degree in Psychology (BSc) from the University of York, U.K. 2006
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Professional Diploma of Clinical Hypnotherapy, Institute of Clinical Hypnosis, 2014
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Yoga Teacher 200 hrs, Leah Sugermen @ Yoga Dunia, Nusa Lembongan, Bali 2018
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Reiki Level II Practitioner
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Accredited Life Coach, Transformation Academy, 2020
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Clinically Addressing Narcissistic Abuse, WorkShop Attendee, Dr. Ramani, 2020
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Uncommon Hypnotherapy, Uncommon Knowledge, 2021
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The Rewind Trauma Technique, Uncommon Knowledge, 2022
You can learn more about my coaching and hypnotherapy services and book a session or start your Inside Out Transformation with my signature 1:1 coaching programme here.
Narcissistic abuse may be your past, but, no matter what, healing and working on yourself can be the beginning of a whole new life, and it's never too late to give yourself this gift.
Don't allow your past to dictate your future, when you can Start Healing Today x
If you are interested to learn more about working with me, click the button below to find out more.
New Career or Business
Life is too short not to share your true gifts and talents with the world, and you want to share yours, but self-doubt from experiencing narcissistic abuse is holding you back.
You wonder: Can I really make this work? Am I smart / qualified / good enough? Who am I to do this? What will people think of me? Maybe I should stay doing my current job (that I don't like)? Maybe I'm dreaming too big? What if I fail? What if I succeed?
You want to work in a job you truly feel passionate about, that you are mean't to be doing. You want to feel excited about what you do, feel successful and be well rewarded for it.